the terminal: life is waiting

i watched the terminal over the weekend. 2 thumbs up (plus 2 toes please..) for steven spielberg, viktor navorski, amelia warren, enrique cruz, gupta & the fellow people. i'm quite agree with "life is waiting". watch this and u mite understand what i'm saying..

i have a few buddies that are still looking for someone right for her or his life. i've found mine 2 years ago. alhamdulillah.. now with the number running in the age sequence. surroundings never keep silent. queries as "bila ko nak kawin?", "apa lagi yg ko tunggu?", "adik ko dah kawin, ko bila lagi?", "ko tak pegi mandi bawah jambatan ke?" have no ends. there's time i wonder why. it's their life. why people have to bother? oklah.. mungkin derang terlebey sayang kat kita. or maybe, they are just part of the people yg suka bertanya. or mite be they have NO other things to talk about. well.. they are just human beings.. kan?

my always thought: those yg asik tanya² are the makcik² type. nampaknya zaman sekarang budak² muda pun ramai yg bermulut makcik². yelah.. budak muda skang kan ke dah ramai sudah kawin dan beranak-pinak. that's why derang pun dah jadik makcik² type kot. marriage is a license to ask such thing? mmm.. dunno.. i guess so.

for my buddies..
lantakkanlah apa derang nak kata. it's ur life kan? u have the rite to determine what u want in ur life. there's no space for comparison like "ko dah kawin aku belum kawin". honesly, there's no such thing. i always believe that there's going to be someone rite for u. no worries. when the time is precise, that person will be coming along. like i used to say, u'll be meeting the wrong person along the journey, then only u'll find the one that suits u. u know my case kan buddies.. take that as an example udahlah... perhaps there's a reason when u have to feel the pain before u enjoy every moment of ur life with that someone besides u.

i wish i'm thaaaat empathy. well i guess, i am. but i dont know to what extend. i can't feel the pain that u felt. i might have the tempias, but that's it. yes, i can cry as loud as u because i am cengeng. but i could never cry for the pain that u have suffered. for the things that people said, for the lost & dump, for the kurang ajar punya laki & perempuan.. i will never feel that. if i have had, i dont know if it's the same feeling. we have to go tru the humps and punk'd. we have too..

u have my say; i'll be by ur side. thru sad & happiness. thru cry & laughter. u know i will. i'll be the shoulder. but if u wanna cry, please prepare the tissue ye. i'm not the tissue carrier.. so perempuanish la.. harharhar

for the people of the surroundings..
leave my buddies alone la. it's their life. and u have ur life. lantak pi la derang nak kawin awal ka, lambat ka.. ada rezeki kang dema ajaklah korang makan² kenduri tu. tak sabaq nak beli hadiah ka? lek lu.. kumpul dana banyak² sket.

dah. toksah nak pikir panjang². ada jodoh kawin. ajak i.. hehehe