budi bahasa budaya kita

ehem... ni post ke seratus ni.. ehem.. ehem..

my colleagues and i had a chat in the pantry the other day. literally, talking about budi bahasa of our kids. with me were 3 mothers whom each has kids with "outraging" behaviour, to be precise, can i say rude? mother A was telling me about her 7 years old daughter mimicked her after she got scolded. and mother F told us her 4 years old daughter rotan her for being late for dinner. while mother AF complaining about her son. and there i was, thinking about adam.. what kind of person would he be? hmmmm...

the 3 mothers agreed on 1 thing. school and friends at school are bad inluence. which partial of me actually agree to. yelah.. kita bukannya tau all the kids' background at school. and nowadays, there's no more surprise that kids at home are so obedient. but at school - masya Allah...

ntahla.. personally i think, it's not the influence. it's the person itself. kalo dia nak, dia nak. kalo dia tanak, dia tanak.. kan? like bigjoe. bapak was a heavy smoker. but he's not. so to put the blame on the friends, the family or the environment, i think it's not fair. i always believe, the problem starts with oneself.

** this is not what i thought this morning.. tretttt.. tretttt.. hilang idea.. hilang idea... **

for instance, adlin vs saleem . what adlin did was a bit harsh. and what saleem did was mengada-ngada.. bapak pun kata, with saleem's background, he cannot think that the community will easily accept him just the way he was. yes i know.. yang lepas tu lepas. yes.. correct. but we can never forget what had happened in the past. aite? adlin was right to say that. it's just that, it wasnt the right time and not the right place.. (cewah.. cakap cam H dalam CSI.. ngehngehngeh)

during my younger days, i dare not to look at mak whenever she gave me the "STOP IT" stare. i'd seal my lips when bapak & mak were talking. rush to the other part of the house when there were visitors. pegi depan hanya untuk salam & hantar air. boleh pegi main, but maghrib is time to balik umah, tutup pintu & tingkap. no lepak. no shopping mall without bapak & mak. nak main talipon pun ketaq tangan... and the most expensive food for me at that time was chicken chop with gravy and fresh orange in cozy corner, ampang park - mak & bapak yg orderkan.

huhu..